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Finding Our Real Selves

Walk In Dry Places
August 27
Finding Our Real Selves
Building Self-esteem
Many of us sold ourselves short while we were drinking. We wanted approval and acceptance, but often felt unworthy of it, even accepting the unfavorable opinions others had toward us.  We resented such opinions, but secretly feared that  our critics were right.
In the Twelve Step program, however, we discover a higher and better self that hadn’t found expression during active drinking.  We no longer have to impress anybody, we no longer need applause, and we no longer crave the false camaraderie that passes for friendship among problem drinkers. We can, in many ways, become new people.

When we experience such change and growth, we may come to wonder how we ever could have been so deluded by the sick self of our drinking years. We feel relief when we realize that we no longer have to live and think that way….  if we continue in the program and make sobriety our highest priority. We will realize too that the self we find in sobriety is the real  self…. a person who was there all along but was crowded out and suppressed by the demands of our sick nature.  This real self is what we were created to be, and sobriety brought its discovery.

I’ll go about my affairs today knowing that my real self is what God wants me to be. Being sober, I can now find answers and opportunities that were beyond my reach when I was still drinking.

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