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Domination and Demand, p. 176

As Bill Sees It
June 25
Domination and Demand, p. 176

The primary fact that we fail to recognize is our total inability to form a true partnership with another human being.  Our egomania digs two disastrous pitfalls.  Either we insist upon dominating people we know, or we depend upon them far too much.

If we lean too heavily on people, they will sooner or later fail us, for they are human, too, and cannot possibly meet our incessant demands. In this way our insecurity grows and festers.

When we habitually try to manipulate others to our own willful desires, they revolt, and resist us heavily. Then we develop hurt feelings, a sense of persecution, and a desire to retaliate.

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My dependency meant demand — a demand for the possession and control of other people and the conditions surrounding me.

1. 12 & 12, p. 53
2. Grapevine, January 1958

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